I shared my findings with Hein and he said it was all about where I felt comfortable. So what I'm thinking of doing is visiting Genesis Clinic in Saxonwold www.genesisclinic.co.za which specialises in natural births - and going the midwife route. What happens there is you get to pick your midwife and she will assist from henceforth and be there on the day of the birth too. Your OBGyn is really just on standby in case something goes wrong. Thing is, I'm just not finding these doctors comforting at all.
I'll let you know how it all goes.